Teletherapy for Pregnancy Challenges
Pregnancy is a time of great transition.
Your body is changing; your hormones are shifting. You adjust to the reality that you will be entering a new role in your life: motherhood. You want to feel joy, excitement, and hope. Still sometimes the anticipation of these changes can bring up anxiety and depression symptoms such as loss of interest and pleasure in things, feelings of anger, worthlessness, guilt, nervousness, worry, restlessness, and irritability. These range of emotions are often unexpected and can be challenging to manage.
For some, this is not your first rodeo. You have already experienced the transition into motherhood.
This may be your second, third, fourth, or umpteenth pregnancy. You are freaking out! You are scared about how this baby will change your life-again. Being pregnant while taking care of your other children is hard. You are exhausted. You have feelings of guilt, anger, nervousness, fear.
For those of you who have struggled with building your family because of infertility or pregnancy loss, your excitement is palpable.
However, you may also feel angry, guilty, scared, nervous, and anxious. You may be waiting for the other shoe to drop-this is too good to be true, so you are holding your breath. Accepting the coexistence of joy and fear is difficult and can often be overwhelming and confusing.
Perhaps you are pregnant, and you have a pre-existing physical disability or a chronic medical illness. Or, have recently learned that you or your unborn child have a medical complication. You may have had previous experiences of feeling unheard or misunderstood. You continue to feel unheard or misunderstood during this pregnancy. This can cause unbearable feelings of anxiety, distress, sadness, and fear. This is not what you imagined what pregnancy would be like.
Maybe you did not want this pregnancy. This was unplanned, and has completely rocked your world. You feel alone, scared, angry, and helpless.
You may be asking yourself or thinking…
- I can’t believe I am feeling sad and angry about this pregnancy; I am an awful person. I am going to be a bad Mom.
- How can I be so selfish?
- I will never be a good mother if I can’t even get through this pregnancy without falling apart.
- Is this anxiety going to last forever?
- Is this what being a mother is like?
- Why am I not experiencing joy all of the time?
- I hate being pregnant.
- Did I make a mistake?
- I can’t believe I decided to have another child, how am I going to handle all of them?
- Will my other children feel neglected with this new baby?
- I did not want this pregnancy.
- I need to suck it up, this is what motherhood is all about, I don’t have time to deal with my feelings.
“What we don’t need in the midst of struggle is shame for being human.”
– Brené Brown
Therapy will help you…
- Deal with your emotions to improve your health and your baby’s health prenatally
- Reduce the intensity of your emotions during the postpartum period
- Process your feelings and offer healthy ways to cope with your emotions’ intensity
- Grieve your previously challenging experiences while simultaneously helping you accept and relish your current condition
- Accept your new role as a mother
- Equip you for the challenges ahead